Saturday, August 11, 2012

Should You Tell Your Employer About Your Side Job?


Low wages, pay freezes, and the threat of layoffs mean that for many employees a second job is a necessity. But does your employer agree?
While a side job can mean the difference between "making it" and financial ruin, companies have become more stringent in regulating what their employees do outside of work. Some organizations prohibit side jobs altogether, while others enforce disciplinary action ranging from immediate dismissal, to a written reprimand, to a demotion.
From a company's perspective, it's for good reason. But don't allow your employer's policies and red tape to scare you away from creating financial padding and learning new skills. Whether you take on additional work as a freelancer, consultant, floor salesperson, or start selling your handcrafted goods, moonlighting can be your path toward building a better future.
If you decide to set up shop outside your current workplace, set up a meeting with your boss first. You need to request approval even if there are no explicit policies regarding side jobs in the employee handbook. (Hint: And if a second job is clearly prohibited, you can still ask.) Don't risk getting fired or losing extra income over a simple five-minute conversation. Here's how:
Know Why Your Company is Worried
Employers typically don't see any advantages to their employees working side jobs, but it can be beneficial for both employer and employee, stimulating creativity, motivation, and new ideas. The key is to keep the focus on your current position:
Put the company first. Most employers want to hear that you'll continue to put your job at their company first. Assuage your manager's concerns by letting her know you won't work at your second job during office hours and that you'll still be able to work overtime during periods of heavy work. Show your commitment to your current position as a priority.
Lay out how you'll remain effective. Your boss doesn't want you to be overwhelmed and fatigued just because you're working multiple jobs, so lay out the strategies that will allow you to remain just as effective as you are now. Don't talk about the new job; discuss how you'll continue to rock your current one.
Keep quiet about confidential information. A small number of companies will be concerned that you'll leak confidential, in-house information, particularly if your side job is utilizing the same skills that your existing job does. If you can't get permission to work in the same vertical, try a side job in a different arena all together.
Act as a good representative. What you do off-hours can seem like none of your employer's business, but it is, especially if what you're doing could be deemed offensive to your employer's customers. Make sure that whatever side job you choose won't put you in an awkward position with any of your company's clients, partners, or customers.
These tips should get you quick approval to take on the side job you've been dreaming about. If you can't get approval however, consider volunteering or taking a career development class. While many employers won't support you getting paid to expand your skill set, they will endorse broadening your horizons in general.

5 Things to Carry on a Romantic Vacation

The plans have been made and the bags have been packed: you have decided to leave the crazy city and bring some romance in your life. While we are totally in-sync with this idea of yours, we have some packing tips for you that you will surely find helpful. Before you jet set off, remember to carry these 5 things along with you.


1. Gift wrap a surprise

Happy surprises are always welcome. And they feel even better when handed out on holidays. Remember to pack a little something for your sweetheart and surreptitiously slip it under her pillow. This is a sure shot happy way to begin that romantic holiday.

2. Sexy lingerie

Not for you, for her! It would be pretty awesome if you buy your love some sexy lingerie. Go to a department store and ask the lady attendant to help you. There is nothing creepy in this, so don’t be embarrassed. Some sexy lingerie is sure to set the mood and get your hormones jumping for joy.

3. Candles and Music

You cannot get it right, till the mood is right. Be sure to carry candles and an updated playlist along with you. Dance a bit, soak in the music, and let the romance settle in. Perfect!

4. Condoms / Birth Control Pills

We don’t need to elaborate on this now, do we?

5. Personal Grooming items

Chances are you will stay indoors for long. Therefore, personal grooming is extremely important given your space constraints. Carry essential items and do what you wish, but don’t compromise on personal grooming.




Doing It Outside the Bedroom

Who says that sex needs to be confined to the bedroom alone? With a little bit of creativity and an adventurous spirit, sex can be equally thrilling in other places as well. Here’s an insider’s look at the places most suitable for doing the deed.


1. Living Room Couch

If you were using the couch just for watching television and lazing around, you have been seriously undermining its true potential. Most adventurous
couples love to take their passions up a notch, by using their couches to make love. Considering the cramped space and the fact that it is nearly not as comfortable as the bed, one needs to come up with newer techniques, to keep the passions going.

2. The Shower Cubicle

Can there be a sexier start to a day than taking a warm and steamy shower with your ladylove? The water streaming down her nude skin is
enough to signal the start of a passionate overture. The best thing about this is that you need not carry her all the way to a bedroom, if you feel the need to act out on your urges. The shower cubicle is the perfect place to have sex, allowing enough room for passionate embraces and lovemaking. So just turn on the shower and lose yourself in the sexual haze.

3. Kitchen Counter

Consider the following situation: Your ladylove is cooking up a storm in the kitchen. You sneak up from behind and gently tease her into arousal. To proceed to make love you need only
lift her and place her on the counter top and let your bodies run their courses. Not only does having sex on the kitchen counter make for a lovely change of place, but also gives you the brilliant opportunity to shake up your lovemaking approach. Besides, now you can watch over your dinner while having sex (not that you would be paying attention to it.)

4. The Floor

Of all the places to have sex in, the floor is the most underrated and therefore one of the most coveted places. Spread a clean rug on the floor
and let your passionate urges take over. The empty spaces without the risk of bumping into other furniture, provides ample room for various positions.

5. The Backseat of Your Car

Who says that you can only feel passionate within the safe confines of your house? The more adventurous couples are taking intercourse to the next level by stepping outside of their
comfort zones. So the next time you feel the urge to have sex with your sweetie while driving, stop the car and unleash your inner sexual beast in the backseat. She will never forget the sexual experience. At the end of the day, sex is only a way to physically express your emotions and when passions run high, it shouldn’t have to wait for night time and a cosy bed.