Doing It Outside the Bedroom

Who says that sex needs to be confined to the bedroom alone? With a little bit of creativity and an adventurous spirit, sex can be equally thrilling in other places as well. Here’s an insider’s look at the places most suitable for doing the deed.

1. Living Room Couch

If you were using the couch just for watching television and lazing around, you have been seriously undermining its true potential. Most adventurous

couples love to take their passions up a notch, by using their couches to make love. Considering the cramped space and the fact that it is nearly not as comfortable as the bed, one needs to come up with newer techniques, to keep the passions going.

2. The Shower Cubicle

Can there be a sexier start to a day than taking a warm and steamy shower with your ladylove? The water streaming down her nude skin is

enough to signal the start of a passionate overture. The best thing about this is that you need not carry her all the way to a bedroom, if you feel the need to act out on your urges. The shower cubicle is the perfect place to have sex, allowing enough room for passionate embraces and lovemaking. So just turn on the shower and lose yourself in the sexual haze.

3. Kitchen Counter

Consider the following situation: Your ladylove is cooking up a storm in the kitchen. You sneak up from behind and gently tease her into arousal. To proceed to make love you need only

lift her and place her on the counter top and let your bodies run their courses. Not only does having sex on the kitchen counter make for a lovely change of place, but also gives you the brilliant opportunity to shake up your lovemaking approach. Besides, now you can watch over your dinner while having sex (not that you would be paying attention to it.)

4. The Floor

Of all the places to have sex in, the floor is the most underrated and therefore one of the most coveted places. Spread a clean rug on the floor

and let your passionate urges take over. The empty spaces without the risk of bumping into other furniture, provides ample room for various positions.

5. The Backseat of Your Car

Who says that you can only feel passionate within the safe confines of your house? The more adventurous couples are taking intercourse to the next level by stepping outside of their

comfort zones. So the next time you feel the urge to have sex with your sweetie while driving, stop the car and unleash your inner sexual beast in the backseat. She will never forget the sexual experience. At the end of the day, sex is only a way to physically express your emotions and when passions run high, it shouldn’t have to wait for night time and a cosy bed.

10 Things Women Hate About Men

1. Feelings

I’ll give top spot to feelings – or rather a man’s apparent inability to express his feelings and talk about them to a woman. Women love yapping away and are known for speaking their minds and making their feelings well known. Mind it; not talking about feelings is very different from having your feelings under control. Issues arise when you cannot see the thin line which separates the two.

2. Over-dominance

It is absolutely noble to want to protect your woman and make her feel safe. It is pretty much every man’s duty. However, your woman is definitely not going to like it if you turn from protector to dictator on her. Don’t try to control specific aspects of her life. You might actually end up suffocating her.

3. Language

While the ‘swearing-woman’ is no longer a myth, she is definitely not going to approve if every fourth or fifth word you speak is an expletive. There are some men who just cannot express themselves without having to resort to swearing. A word here and there is okay when you’re upset; just don’t make it the norm if you want to be in the woman’s good books.

4. Just not romantic enough

Women like to portray that tough, not-a-helpless-girl attitude – but at heart, they’re always going to be hopelessly romantic. There’s nothing that a woman would possibly want more than a male partner who connects with her emotionally, and manages to catch her off guard with those little romantic advances. If you’re that guy who thinks romance is an alien concept, you’re going to have a tough time with the women.

5. Predictable vs. Spontaneous

It doesn’t need a rocket scientist or a love guru to tell you which category of men is preferred by women out of the two. Let’s face it; things do get boring after a while. Be a little creative and innovative. Do something out of the blue, and make sure you tell her that she is the only reason you went to the extent of doing something new and put in that extra effort to make it special.

6. Grooming

While we have come a long way from the days of the cave man to being today’s sophisticated creatures, some men take it upon themselves to remind the world of the early man and his habits. Inadequate grooming, wearing clothes which look centuries old, unkempt hair, etc are not going to win you any brownie points with the fairer sex. They like their men well-mannered and presentable.

7. Arguments

This is something you want to avoid at all costs. All of us know who wins anyhow. Do not turn every conversation or discussion into an argument. Be patient and understanding. This brings to my next point…

8. Listen, listen, listen!

Woes befall you if you let your mind wander away during a conversation and missed out on what she was saying. We men are often accused of having short attention spans and not paying heed when a woman speaks. Classic case in point is the verbal grocery shopping list. Make it a habit, forcefully if needed, to listen to every bit of her incessant yapping. At least pretend for heaven’s sake.

9. Her friends, your friends. Only friends though!

Women like to test their men by observing how they socialize with their girl-friends. It’s a tough balancing act, trust me. On the one hand you have to appear friendly, charming and likeable to her friends. At the same time, pay a little extra attention than needed, and you’ll be accused of being a flirt. Tread carefully.

10. The wandering eye

While every woman loves the fact that her man appreciates her body, you’re going to have to look into her eyes when you talk. The last impression you want to create is that of a creep. Being a little gentlemanly never hurt anyone. Also, keep those eyes off other women, unless you want to take Angry Birds a little too literally.

How To Impress a Girl On The Phone

1. Know when to call

You cannot call her randomly any time of the day. Nor can you call her twenty times in a day. What you must do, however, is know when you can call her. It could be in her lunch break, or when she is

travelling back home from work or late at night. If you get the timing of the call right, then the conversation is bound to head in the right direction. 

2. Know what to talk

We know that you will stick to talking sweet little nothings and that you will flirt on the phone. While you should do this, don’t ever get to talking about work and how it troubles you. She is

not your agony aunt, she is the girl you want to impress. Also, show concern for what is happening in her life right now. Ask after her work and family, and then let her carry the conversation forward in the direction she pleases. Not to forget, talking about your ex is a strict no-no.

3. Show concern

Show concern for what is happening in her life right now. Ask after her work and family, and then let her carry the conversation forward in the direction she pleases.

4. Talk sweetly

You will be able to impress her if you talk softly and sweetly on the phone. Don’t be loud and don’t get aggressive. Let your true feelings for her engulf you and let the love do the talking! 

5. Don’t lie

The last thing you want to do is lie to her. If you fumble while talking, cook up stories, or sound unsure of what you are saying she will know something is wrong. If she begins to doubt your intentions, or mistrusts you, everything will do downhill from there on.

6. Be a good listener

The whole point of a phone call goes to waste if you don’t listen to what she has to say. So make it a point to listen to her attentively and give her your 100% attention. 

7. Talk about common interests

She will go to sleep if you talk about stuff that does not interest her – like football, F1 or computers. Make it a point to talk about things that you both like and find interesting.  

8. Sing (only if you can)

This may sound a bit unusual, but you can definitely give it a try. If you have a fairly decent voice then you should sing to her over the phone. String a guitar along if possible. She will surely

be impressed and flattered.  If you want to impress a girl on the phone, then the best tip we can give you is to sound genuine. Don’t sound too cocky and fake. Keep it simple and keep it sweet. She will be able to hear the sweetness in your voice and she will start to develop feelings for you.